Knowing what your partner wants or how she feels without having her say a single word is a challenging task that few lovers have mastered. You can use her body language to determine whether you are doing it right.
Body language will never mislead you. Paying attention to her reactions during sex will provide you all the information that you need to make it a spectacular experience for both of you.
Rapid breathing is the most obvious sign that she is turned on. Always listen to her breathing while touching her. Even if she remains silent, you will know that you have managed to hit the right spot.
She may also be moaning, especially if you are doing an excellent job. Breathing and verbal signals are probably the easiest ones to read. A girl that simply remains silent and maintaining her regular breathing rate is either bored or wondering what precisely you are trying to do.
She is Trying to Cover Her Body
Is your girl using her hands or the sheet to cover her body, for example her breasts or her hips? This signal is anything but positive. You will have to do something about it and you will have to do it quickly.
Many ladies are body conscious and if she is trying to cover herself up, she is thinking about her imperfections rather than about how great sex is. You will have to undertake some steps that will help her relax and enjoy the moment.
We have already discussed body issues and the best way to handle those. Tell her how much you love her body or how sexy she is. The moment she begins relaxing, she will forget about covering herself up.
Her Body is Pushing against Yours
Is she trying to curve her body in a way that allows for maximum contact? Does she hug you and try to move the same way you do? This is a sign that the lady loves having sex with you.
Skin contact and proximity are very important for a satisfactory intimate experience. Women are seeking it subconsciously, especially if they want to increase the intimacy and strengthen the bond with someone.
Keep on doing the things you currently are. Your girl loves it and you are one really lucky guy.
No Signals Whatsoever!
The lack of positive or negative body language is a troublesome development that you will have to address in case you plan to have sex with this person more than once.
Talk to her. Being delicate about it will add little to your sex life. Ask her what she likes and how she would like to be touched. You may even consider discussing sexual fantasies. In the beginning, she will probably be reluctant to share such delicate information with you. Be gentle, confident and persistent. Once she realizes that she can trust you, the lady will be more willing to share and to work on improving sex.
Use all of your senses during sex. You will get all of the information that is needed, as long as you know where to look and how to read the signals. A woman’s body will tell you everything that you need to know. Pay close attention to her body language and her subconscious reactions.
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